Good News

Our agency, AWAA, puts out a weekly update on their blog that let you know what all is going on in the different countries that they have programs in.

I always check once a week to see what is up and this week I saw something that has changed. Ever since we began the process it has read that for Ethiopia, the expectant wait time for a referral of an infant baby boy was 4-6 months. This week it read 3-6 months. 3 months! Thats only 12 weeks after DTE. Thats like last trimester! Just thought that was kinda cool that the wait time is decreasing! I cannot wait to have our homestudy finalized, get our I-171H form and get DTE!!!

Haiti Adoptions

I just watched on CNN that over 100 orphans from Haiti who have been waiting for the system to process their paperwork will be allowed into the US this week. Praise the Lord! Anyone that has dealt with international adoption knows what a miracle this is. The red tape seems to be never ending at times.

When we first began to consider international adoption, we looked into Haiti, but there is a rule set by the Haitian government that adoptive parents can only have 2 biological children in their home. You could, of course, apply for an exception. This taking much more time and money than the 2 years and $25,000+ for a standard Haitian adoption. That was when we decided to not pursue Haiti as a potential country to adopt from.

We often feel like Ethiopia chose us. We funneled down the criteria for adoptive parents ( income, biological children requirement)and then what we were looking for ( infant adoption, shorter wait time) and it came down to Ethiopia and Korea. The agency we felt most comfortable with did not have a Korea program, so Ethiopia it was!

I want to say first off, I love our agency and I am 100% committed to adopting a baby or two from Ethiopia. That being said, I posed this question to myself last night..."What if the Haitian government and the US government said that anyone with a up to date, approved, international Home study could adopt a Haitian orphan. What would I do? What would others like me do?

I know for me, I would adopt one in a heart beat! I think I could say the same for many of the other AWAA families. It is already proven we have a heart for orphans. We have already been through many criminal, credit and personal history checks. We have already put thousands of dollars into an adoption. We have already been educated on foreign adoption and the issues that come with adopting a child of another race. I, for one would love to adopt two children from Ethiopia under the age of three, but that is highly unlikely for a sibling group under three to become available. China for instance is now taking 4 years to complete an adoption so agency's are allowing families to adopt from somewhere , like Ethiopia, while waiting for a referral for China.

The positive side of me wants to think this may happen and that it would be a solution to all those children in Haiti needing homes and all the families in the US wanting babies and how wonderful it would be. The cynical side of me knows that is way too simple of a solution and if the governments were not getting something out of it, there is no way they would agree to it.

I am not a President Obama fan, but if he was able to make this work and rescue that many starving orphans from life in an institution or worse, on the streets, then I would say his presidency was redeemable.(At least in this case).

I am curious though...I would like your opinion. If you are going through the process of adoption and this situation presented itself to you, what would you? What are the drawbacks of this plan? Could it happen? Why? Why not??

I just keep on thinking, in two weeks, I will have an approved international home study that is good for 18 months. Is God going to use this to bring a child home form Ethiopia? I sure hope so! BUT...what if it is to be used for more than that??

The verse in my head that keeps repeating is:

Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father,inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.³⁵For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me ³⁶ I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.'

Mathew 25:34-36

It is what He commands us to do, so shouldn't we?

Valentine project...Can you help?

Kari Smalley Gibson at My Crazy Adoption is teaming up with Tom Davis to deliver shoes to orphans. Buy a beautiful shirt from Kari's website for $25 and you can help orphans. Just click on the link on my sidebar that says "Be my Valentine" Here is some info from Kari's blog:

HopeChest Project Ethiopia – Shirts For Shoes:

• Providing shoes & shirts for 400 orphans enrolled in HopeChest programs.
• For every T shirt you buy- HopeChest will provide a new pair of shoes & a new shirt for an orphan.
• 100% of proceeds will benefit orphans in Ethiopia.
• To Ethiopia with Love- projects throughout the country that HopeChest sponsors.

Our fingerprints

Our fingerprints are now in the system! The whole appointment took 12 minutes! Greg and I were both in and out in no time. Hopefully they will be issuing that I-171H form to us just as quickly!

After we left the USCIS building we went to Olive Garden to meet with our social worker, Michelle, for the last time until post placement! We should have our homestudy final draft by some time in February! We will send that in with our Dossier papers and hopefully be DTE Soon!! Yay!!

We also had a family give money to our Eternal Family Program. It is a program that AWAA has that allows people and businesses to give a tax donation and it will go directly to our adoption fund. We are so thankful for the financial and prayer support of so many people that have blessed us along this journey!

Home Study Visit

We have our first of three Home Study interviews today. Another one tomorrow and the one next Wednesday. The house is clean, Greg is on his way to Lowes to buy smoke detector batteries. Now I just pray she doesnt look in my closets! :)

Diaper bag

I bought the very first new thing for our baby (babies). I have been waiting and bought a few little yard sale outfits, but today I bought a VERA BRADLEY diaper bag!!

When Vera's first became popular, I thought if I ever have another baby, I am gonna get a Vera Bradley diaper bag. Well, I had to exchange something at Hallmark and I used the money for this!

I love it!!

Passports

We got them in the mail while we were in Florida! Check check checkin off that list!!